There are a million things that can go wrong in love and you can keep on fearing them or you can choose to live by the hope of all the good things that can come out of love. You might get disappointed every now and then, also in yourself, but don’t let it stop you from finding treasures and opening up to people. Believe in this heart of yours and take chances. It will be fine.
Wow, thank you, Dahlia! Your way of thinking is not weird at all, I think it’s beautiful and rational at the same time. You can be proud of yourself, don’t ever let someone tell you that your way of thinking about love is weird. It isn’t. Lots of love back, you are great! xo
Yes, I bet that day will come, but you shouldn’t live for it. I know this world tells you that once you’ve found ‘the one’, you’ll be happy and loved and the sun will always shine. But it’s not like that and you can find happiness in things that are much more lasting and reliable than the appreciation of another person. Feeling happy and content with yourself starts right now - if you want to. It’s up to you to decide that you are more than the hand you can hold on a friday night. That you can shine for other reasons than some promises whispered in your ear while watching the sunset. You’ve got a heart and it can beat for other things than someone else’s appreciation. So go, and find things that make your heart beat faster. Look around you and see that there are people who love you - and love them back. Look around and see that there are people who do not love you - love them anyway. You are great, but it comes from within. Find yourself and love yourself.
Everything sounds a bit strange. I don’t see any good reason for you two to break up. The only problem is that he doesn’t want to be committed to someone right now. It happens to loads of guys and girls at that age. They just want to be ‘free’ and I guess that has nothing to do with you. But talk to him and tell him that you do not want to break up, that your feelings are still the same. But if he doesn’t want to go on, he has to be honest with you as well. Even though it’s hard, you have to talk with him about it and accept the consequences.
Good luck xx
Wow, Lara, I don’t know what to say. Thank you for all this love, it feels like a beautiful sunset after a rainy day (and it was a very, very rainy day today). xxxxx
Of course it’s okay to be single for a long time! Being single gives you a great opportunity to learn things about yourself and to invest time in unfolding your personality. It’s a time to give yourself the colours you love and exploring the world without being committed to someone else. Enjoy it! Don’t be too afraid that it’s too long. You should never force yourself into a relationship. Your time will come, I promise.
Lots of love, Chris
answering all the messages in my inbox atm, i’ll try to upload some words today or at least this week! love you all xoxx
If I could bottle all the marvellous things I saw during my vacation, I’d hold it close to my heart on days like this when the sky is full of sorrows.