March 2012
39 posts
Hello beautiful chris :)) how can you get over someone you liked (but you didnt date him) for a really long time, but you still want to end up friends? thanks xx <333
Hello! <3
I don’t know, it’s one of the hardest thing to do: get over someone. But you already took the first step: you realized that you want to get over him. I just don’t know if you can réally get over someone. You’ll probably always feel a little bit more for him then ‘just friends’, but you can be friends. Does he know you like him? Maybe you can show him you really can be a normal friend and have a lot of fun with him. That is, in the end, the most important thing: have a lot of fun! It’s gonna be okay. X
Ps. The best remedy to get over someone, is to fall in love with someone else :)
Hi :) this is my first time here. I like this boy, who's in grade 12. I'm in grade 8. I heard many different things from different people. Some said he thinks i'm too young. Some said he might like me back. I chat with him on facebook. He's really kind. I want to talk to him and get to know him more. But i'm not even brave enough to look at his face. He's graduating soon. What should i do? I really like him... Please help me :) thank you
Hey hey! First thing: don’t listen to what people say, they’re always saying different things.. HE is the only one who really knows what he thinkgs, right? So if you really want to know what he thinks, you do have to get closer to him. You say that you do want this, but that you’re not brave enough. I know how it feels, I really do. I don’t think you need to rush, just take it slowly. Day by day. Talk a little more every day, tell him a little bit more everyday (on facebook), and after a little while, maybe you can say something like: hmm, we only chat on facebook, but never ‘in real life’, and see how he reacts. Just take it slowly, you can do it! Big hug, me x
Im in love with a boy for over a year and i told him that, but i regret, because before i told him that i love him, we were very great friends, but than he pushed me away, he told my best friend that me and him can only be friends and its a stupid thing that young girls my age to fall in love with boys his age, he is 18 now. we sometimes chat on facebook, but i really want to be closer friends,he is very good with my friends.I dont want to be his gf,only his friend what must i do? help me xx
It’s sad to hear that he pushed you away, sorry for that. For now, you have to realize that you have to forget about your love for him. He made it very clear that this is not what he wants. So if you really wanna be his friend, I think you just have to talk to him. First on facebook etc., but maybe you can tell him then, that you’d like to see him again, but really just as a friend, and maybe you can ask him how he feels about this whole thing. You can do it. <3
Much love, C x
Heya, last summer i fell in love with a boy, and we became very good friends:) but on november i told him that i had a crush on him, and things changed, he pushed me away. Now i really want to be his friend again, that must i do:( i really want to be his friend again, you have no idea how i feel. All the time i listen to Bryan Adams - Please forgive me, and it kills me, what must i do? please help me Chris, love youu xx
Hey hey! I guess that you just have to talk with him. Or maybe you can send him an e-mail/letter, if that’s easier for you. Maybe you can write down the lyrics of that song, and tell him that the only thing you want is just his friend, and that you really miss him. Ask him if he’s mad at you or if he has any problems with it. You can do it, good luck! Much love, me x
Hi, I like a boy, but he has a girlfriend. But he sends out these signs which tell me, that he likes me, too. What shall I do? Ask him, if he likes me (though he has a girlfriend) or just enjoy it? I really begin to like this boy, that's why I do not know how to go on …
Hello! Well, for now, I don’t think that you should do anything, because he has a girlfriend. You shouldn’t ruin this relationship. Maybe if it ends, you can take a step towards him, but for now, I’m sorry, just not. (And btw, he doesn’t sound really reliable: he has a girlfriend but he still looks/sends signs at you? Hmmm..)
Huge hug, Chris x
I think I love my best friend. He's in a relationship, but he says he doesn't think its working between them. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't want to put our friendship at risk, and I really don't know what to do!
Hey hey! I think that you should wait with telling him how you feel, because he’s in a relationship now. But you can talk with him about this relationship and if he really wants to be with this girl. And maybe you can somehow tell him that if you were his girlfriend, you’d have a lot of fun or something like that, you know what I mean? See how he reacts, and maybe you can talk about your friendship and how he sees it etc. But be careful, ‘cause you don’t want to ruin their relationship, right?
Love, me x
Hi Chris:)) see my crush told me that he will call me to hang out, but he actually didnt. Its been a month and he still didnt call me. I really really want to hang out with him, he's got a gf, but i only want to be his friend, even though he knows i have a crush on him, does this make things worse? If i call him would it be bad? He is a wonderful guy to hang out with, and i really dont want to lose his friendship:( Help me pleasee, love you xoxo
Hey girl!
I’m just wondering.. what’s the real reason you want to hang out with him? Because he’s a wonderful guy to hang out with and because you don’t want to lose this friendship? Or because you are in love with him? Be honest to yourself. If it’s the last reason, I think you should, for now, not hang out with him. He has a girlfriend, so I’m really sorry to say this, but there is now just no chance that something will happen between you, and you just shouldn’t hope for it.
And if you really just want to be his friend and stay his friend, I think that you can just call him. Just go to the city or something like that, and have fun.
Good luck, you can do it. <3
Hi Chris:) Im a guy and i read your blog being honest i dont know how i end here, are you a poet?Its wonderful how you write. I think you must actually try to talk to this guy, and have a real love life, not only tumblr or stuff you deserve something good, honestly i loved what you wrote. Girls dont be afraid of what you feel, dont deny love, yeah most of guys are jerks, they are jerks because theyre afraid of love.I love my girlfriend alot,she's special to me,one day you will all find love.
Heee, thank you só much, really. <3 But well, no, I don’t consider myself as a poet, just someone who writes things down to clear her mind. And about the guy.. thank you and you are right. I thought I wasn’t really in love with him anymore, but we see each other a lot more lately, and I guess I’m falling in love with him again. But now it’s a good kind of love, cause I’m not extremely nervous anymore when I see him, and I don’t think about him áll the time. I just like him a lot, and we’re having a lot of fun together. It’s gonna be all right, I promise.
Thank you for telling us that not all the guys are jerks. You are right. Sometimes it feels like that, but there are great, honest guys out there who will love you like you love your girlfriend.
We will all find love.
A thousand hugs, Christianne
Just wanted thank you for your tumblr, it helped me through alot and when you speak about God loving each person i feel his presence thank you again for all that you do.
Thank you so much for saying this, it really, really means a lot. God bless you. x
Heey, im in this situation i love a guy so much, and there's a chance he loves me too, but im not sure. I dated him but i left him because of a missunderstanding, but i still love him and hes like always looking at me, blushing and stuff but he doesnt talk to me. Is that because he's ashamed because i left him and stuff? I wanna make things work, but i dont know how to find out if he still loves me, i tried to talk to him but it didnt work.. so please give me an advice cause i really need one!<3
Hello! Well, I think that there’s a chance he might like you, but he probably won’t take the first step, cause you left him. I do think that you should take the first step, and just try talk to him again. Maybe just on facebook or something like that first, and then ‘in real life’. If you want to make things work, you should take a step, cause I don’t think he will take one.
Good luck, you can do it!
Hi so there's a guy that i talk to everyday,and he is a great boy,im not sure i love him,but i think he kinda likes me,how can i understand that i like him?if someone ask me if i have a crush on him,i always answer like HELL NO, atm im trying to get over a guy that i liked for a year, when i see him, i fall even more, but its wrong maybe Im trying so hard to get over him,now im trying to like the wrong one.what can I do? This guy im talking to isnt handsome,i dont know what i feel thankyou xx
Hey hey!
Well, maybe you shouldn’t worry too much about what you’re feeling, but just have a lot of fun with this guy and talk a lot too him. Time will make it clear to you! Just enjoy it!
Big hug, Chris x
Its like sometimes I feel like I dont belong in this world. Im in a school full of people who dont get me. I dont know how to explain but I fell really diffrent. I am in love with that one guy everyone says he is just really not a kind of boyfriend. Everyday I fell so stupid for beiing in love with him... But I cant change that...
Hello!
Let me tell you this: don’t listen to what other people say if they don’t want the best for you. Only listen to people you trust and who love you. Listen to your own heart and think with you mind. But I understand that it’s hard to forget about their opinions. Do you know why they say that? Do they have any good reasons? Do you agree with it? Think about it and good luck <3 Love c x
I need advice. ): Ok so, the boy I basically LOVE is in love with my bestfriend. the boy and I were dating then he dumped me for my bestfriend. what should I do to get over him? & is it even possible?
Hey sweetie <3 So sad to hear about your situation. But it’s so good that you realize that you should get over him. Not because you’re less than your best friend or something like that, but because you deserve SO much better than this, you really do. First, they always say, time’ll help you forget about him. But well.. I know that’s not really a good advice. So.. what helps for me is, to write things down or to draw. It doesn’t have to be beautiful, just write/draw what you feel. Write down all is flaws and stupid things and all your hopes for the future and your dreams about love. Or just draw lines and scratches. And listen to music. Music always helps, not matter in what situation you are. Sing along as loud as you can, cry when you hear something recognizable. Talk with a friend, go out, go to the movies or to an amusement park. Go out swimming or walking. Do something you haven’t done for a long time. You know, just try to not think about him everyday. Don’t go to his facebook page or something like that. Do nice things and enjoy little things. Finally, one more thing: look around! There are so much more girls around you. Go to new places, meet new people. There are 7 billion people here, there’s someone else for you! Someone who is só much better. Just enjoy life a lot and realize that you deserve the best.
Bye beautiful,
Chris xx
