I don’t know, it’s one of the hardest thing to do: get over someone. But you already took the first step: you realized that you want to get over him. I just don’t know if you can réally get over someone. You’ll probably always feel a little bit more for him then ‘just friends’, but you can be friends. Does he know you like him? Maybe you can show him you really can be a normal friend and have a lot of fun with him. That is, in the end, the most important thing: have a lot of fun! It’s gonna be okay. X
Ps. The best remedy to get over someone, is to fall in love with someone else :)
Hey hey! First thing: don’t listen to what people say, they’re always saying different things.. HE is the only one who really knows what he thinkgs, right? So if you really want to know what he thinks, you do have to get closer to him. You say that you do want this, but that you’re not brave enough. I know how it feels, I really do. I don’t think you need to rush, just take it slowly. Day by day. Talk a little more every day, tell him a little bit more everyday (on facebook), and after a little while, maybe you can say something like: hmm, we only chat on facebook, but never ‘in real life’, and see how he reacts. Just take it slowly, you can do it! Big hug, me x
It’s sad to hear that he pushed you away, sorry for that. For now, you have to realize that you have to forget about your love for him. He made it very clear that this is not what he wants. So if you really wanna be his friend, I think you just have to talk to him. First on facebook etc., but maybe you can tell him then, that you’d like to see him again, but really just as a friend, and maybe you can ask him how he feels about this whole thing. You can do it. <3
Much love, C x
Hey hey! I guess that you just have to talk with him. Or maybe you can send him an e-mail/letter, if that’s easier for you. Maybe you can write down the lyrics of that song, and tell him that the only thing you want is just his friend, and that you really miss him. Ask him if he’s mad at you or if he has any problems with it. You can do it, good luck! Much love, me x
Hello! Well, for now, I don’t think that you should do anything, because he has a girlfriend. You shouldn’t ruin this relationship. Maybe if it ends, you can take a step towards him, but for now, I’m sorry, just not. (And btw, he doesn’t sound really reliable: he has a girlfriend but he still looks/sends signs at you? Hmmm..)
Huge hug, Chris x
Hey hey! I think that you should wait with telling him how you feel, because he’s in a relationship now. But you can talk with him about this relationship and if he really wants to be with this girl. And maybe you can somehow tell him that if you were his girlfriend, you’d have a lot of fun or something like that, you know what I mean? See how he reacts, and maybe you can talk about your friendship and how he sees it etc. But be careful, ‘cause you don’t want to ruin their relationship, right?
Love, me x
I’m just wondering.. what’s the real reason you want to hang out with him? Because he’s a wonderful guy to hang out with and because you don’t want to lose this friendship? Or because you are in love with him? Be honest to yourself. If it’s the last reason, I think you should, for now, not hang out with him. He has a girlfriend, so I’m really sorry to say this, but there is now just no chance that something will happen between you, and you just shouldn’t hope for it.
And if you really just want to be his friend and stay his friend, I think that you can just call him. Just go to the city or something like that, and have fun.
Good luck, you can do it. <3
Heee, thank you só much, really. <3 But well, no, I don’t consider myself as a poet, just someone who writes things down to clear her mind. And about the guy.. thank you and you are right. I thought I wasn’t really in love with him anymore, but we see each other a lot more lately, and I guess I’m falling in love with him again. But now it’s a good kind of love, cause I’m not extremely nervous anymore when I see him, and I don’t think about him áll the time. I just like him a lot, and we’re having a lot of fun together. It’s gonna be all right, I promise.
Thank you for telling us that not all the guys are jerks. You are right. Sometimes it feels like that, but there are great, honest guys out there who will love you like you love your girlfriend.
We will all find love.
A thousand hugs, Christianne
Thank you so much for saying this, it really, really means a lot. God bless you. x
Hello! Well, I think that there’s a chance he might like you, but he probably won’t take the first step, cause you left him. I do think that you should take the first step, and just try talk to him again. Maybe just on facebook or something like that first, and then ‘in real life’. If you want to make things work, you should take a step, cause I don’t think he will take one.
Good luck, you can do it!
Well, maybe you shouldn’t worry too much about what you’re feeling, but just have a lot of fun with this guy and talk a lot too him. Time will make it clear to you! Just enjoy it!
Big hug, Chris x
Let me tell you this: don’t listen to what other people say if they don’t want the best for you. Only listen to people you trust and who love you. Listen to your own heart and think with you mind. But I understand that it’s hard to forget about their opinions. Do you know why they say that? Do they have any good reasons? Do you agree with it? Think about it and good luck <3 Love c x
Hey sweetie <3 So sad to hear about your situation. But it’s so good that you realize that you should get over him. Not because you’re less than your best friend or something like that, but because you deserve SO much better than this, you really do. First, they always say, time’ll help you forget about him. But well.. I know that’s not really a good advice. So.. what helps for me is, to write things down or to draw. It doesn’t have to be beautiful, just write/draw what you feel. Write down all is flaws and stupid things and all your hopes for the future and your dreams about love. Or just draw lines and scratches. And listen to music. Music always helps, not matter in what situation you are. Sing along as loud as you can, cry when you hear something recognizable. Talk with a friend, go out, go to the movies or to an amusement park. Go out swimming or walking. Do something you haven’t done for a long time. You know, just try to not think about him everyday. Don’t go to his facebook page or something like that. Do nice things and enjoy little things. Finally, one more thing: look around! There are so much more girls around you. Go to new places, meet new people. There are 7 billion people here, there’s someone else for you! Someone who is só much better. Just enjoy life a lot and realize that you deserve the best.