The River Speaks

Ah that’s so sweet! Let me know which one you chose! X

I do not know how to answer your message. I know why I’m here, but I don’t know if it’ll help you right now if I say this.

But well… I believe in God and I believe I’m here to follow Him and to tell the world about His love. It gives me a lot of peace. I still wonder why things happen and I feel lost a lot, but I always find myself in Him. I hope you will discover this peace as well. You can search for it your whole life, but I believe I found the answer. I hope you’ll find it yourself too one day X

AH THIS IS SO GREAT! I’ve been following you for a very long time and I absolutely adore your writing, your a big inspiration to me. This message means a lot, thank you so much! 

You just really have to talk about it. Otherwise you don’t know how he feels and he doesn’t know how you feel. Tell him you still have feelings and you want to talk to him and ask him what he wants know and why he ignores you. You can keep on wondering what he wants, but just ask it!

Lots of love, Christianne

Hello lovely,

Well, I also cannot tell you whether you love him or not or whether he loves you or not. I can only tell that if you keep on being afraid and held back, things will never work out. You do not have to know everything yet. Take things slow, keep on seeing him and try to find out what you feel and what you want. Do you think about him a lot? Does he make you happier? It’ll be fine, don’t worry too much!
Lots of love, C 

I feel so flattered by your words, thank you so much, it means a lot to me. I just go and sit behind my computer and write down the things I’m feeling and the things I’m thinking about! And I don’t have a beautiful, deep reason why I called my blog The River Speaks. On a vacation a few years ago, there was this little, wonderful river and I could sit next to it for hours and just listen to its peacefullness. When I think back to that moment, I just feel peaceful myself, less worried, more hopeful. And I hope my words will be like that most of the time. It just sounded like a pretty good name, actually. X

Hello,

first: look at my FAQ http://theriverspeaks.tumblr.com/FAQ

there may be a few helpful tips there. But I see it’s not that easy. People don’t understand it indeed, but it can take years to get over someone. If he’s in love with someone else, you can’t just change his feelings. And you can’t just change yours. Maybe you will never stop loving him, but perhaps that shouldn’t be your ‘goal’. Forget the changing of these feelings. You just can’t at the moment. Focus on dealing with these feelings. What makes it so hard? When do they get stronger and when don’t you think about them? Go on long walks, take your time to rest, to think, to write it all down. And, very important, try to talk about it met someone. Can you talk about it with him? It would definitely help, but I don’t know how close you are with him. If this isn’t possible, try to talk to someone who knows you well. He or she can help, really. Don’t estimate this. Talking really works. Try to give your feelings a place where they don’t confuse you, break you, change you in a negative way. Try to find your way in this situation and realize that it won’t change.

I’m so sorry for you, I wish you all the best and more.

Hugs, Christianne