I have loved this guy for more than two years, his flaws...everything...but he treats me like a stranger..even though we were always friends..He ignores me, and it kills me..I know he doesn't feel the same, but how am I suppose to feel like thaat, to not feel anything for him..? I don't know how, or what to do. asked by Anonymous
Oh that must be so hard for you.. Maybe he just doesn’t know how to handle the situation and you can try to talk to him? Make clear you still just want to be his friends. And well.. I’m sorry.. he doesn’t feel the same, and you can’t make him love you. Your feelings won’t just go away, not now and not in a few months. I wish I could tell you differently, but I experienced this myself last year.. when you finally think the feelings are gone they can suddenly come back to you as fast as a bullit. Feelings never completely go away, sometimes you just have got to learn to live with them and be strong. Be strong, don’t have too much self pity and just have fun. That’s what I learned. Love, Chris
