The River Speaks

Only 1,5 week to go…

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:12:32 +0200

Only 1,5 week to go…

"Heb je zin in zonnestralen vangen met mij?"

Wed, 15 May 2013 17:27:00 +0200

“Heb je zin
in zonnestralen
vangen
met mij?”

- The River Speaks

Final exams start in only a few hours… I’m pretty scared. (and I won’t post a lot...

Mon, 13 May 2013 09:00:04 +0200

Final exams start in only a few hours… I’m pretty scared.

(and I won’t post a lot in the upcoming weeks, sorry)

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Tue, 07 May 2013 18:26:12 +0200

"love, the breaking of your soul upon my lips"

Tue, 07 May 2013 17:29:00 +0200

“

love,
the breaking

of your
soul
upon
my lips

”

- e.e. cummings

Can a person only be attracted sexually to another person but not to feel anything about that person?

Tue, 07 May 2013 17:23:18 +0200

Uh, yeah, I guess that’s possible, but I think that, after a while, you are starting to feel SOMETHING for that person X

dear, chris. I'm just extremely tired and I really need someone to talk with. so I immediately think about you and I just want to be listened. i currently having problems at school and other things which now making me helpless. I've tried to talk about this to my parents but aha no use. they ignored and yelled at me instead. I feel really bad about myself and everything else.

Tue, 07 May 2013 17:22:52 +0200

Hey lovely,

I’m sorry to hear that you’re having problems and you feel so helpless. I will always listen and I will always try to help you as far as I can. So, I’m here for you, okay? Talk to me if you need help.

Lots of love, Chris

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Tue, 07 May 2013 17:12:54 +0200

well, hi, You have an amazing blog. ^_^ So I there's a boy from my class, I knew him for 3 years now. So I don't know how it happened, but I just liked him.. a lot. And I started to miss him and think of him. The thing is that in the way that looks and smiles at me.. i think that he likes me, but everytime I start looking at him the same way he starts ignoring me. Am I supposed to just sit there and do nothing while he's watching and doesn't have to courage to tell me something?! :/

Tue, 07 May 2013 11:06:33 +0200

Well, you’ll never know if you never try, and if you really want something to happen, just take a step and talk to him and maybe ask him to go out for a drink. He’s probably just shy. Good luck! X

he's my bestfriend and he told me he loved me, that was a shock. i don't love him that way but i don't wanna lose touch with him. i kept on telling him i love you and then i dont and then i do, but i know i dont. i dont wanna hurt him as well and i know he's strict in these stuff, he can't be just friends with someone he loves. i really need help because i have no clue of what to do, i love someone else and i can't love this one more than a brother, i neeed help

Tue, 07 May 2013 10:49:28 +0200

Well, I don’t think there’s a good way to solve this, I’m sorry. You shouldn’t have told him you loved him, ‘cause that will keep his hopes high. You have to make it clear to him that you don’t love him the way he loves you. Tell him what you told him, be totally honest with him. Other wise he’ll think there might be a chance, he’ll never really see you as his friend. If he can’t see you as his friend for now, then maybe you two should just stop seeing each other for a little while. It’s not your fault, you want to be his friend, but it might be too hard for him. Be honest, please X

what do you think of this: A guy has started to talk to you about 4 times and at the same times he likes pictures of other girls on Facebook... is that ok? I know that we are not a couple but it just doesn't feel right...

Tue, 07 May 2013 10:46:55 +0200

Yeah, I know how that feels, but I shouldn’t worry too much if I was you. Keep on talking with him, I mean.. the fact that he likes those pictures doesn’t mean he likes these girls in real life, if you know what I mean. They’re probably just friends. Have a little faith in him X

I'm starting to like 2 boys at once and I don't know what to do please help!!

Tue, 07 May 2013 10:45:05 +0200

Hm, just give it a rest, don’t worry too much. You don’t have to do anything with these feelings yet and you don’t have to decide yet. Take some time, be honest with yourself, you’ll be fine, I promise X

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Thu, 02 May 2013 22:50:21 +0200

Hey, quite recently I have recovered from a boy and know I met a other boy. He is cute and my friends told me, that he is a good boy. We met us a few days. Know we are on the point, where I 'm disappointed from the other boy. So I'm afraid to be disappointed again. I like him, really, but he don',t answered for a few days and my fear increase. I don't know, how I get rid of this feeling. It makes me crazy. Can you help me?

Thu, 02 May 2013 22:41:03 +0200

Of course it’s scary! It’s really hard to be disappointed by someone and to have faith again. To trust someone again. But if you never give your trust to someone, you’ll never find love. Love demands trust. Don’t be too afraid. Just go talk to him and ask why he didn’t answer you. X

im turning 19 and still haven't have a boyfriend and considering to be in a long distance relationship. no one dares to court me. and the man i loved doesn't love me back. :( it's been 3 months since he rejected me. i just feel the need of having a boyfriend. i guess im beginning to be tired with love. :((

Thu, 02 May 2013 22:39:44 +0200

Oh I know these feelings. And I can encourage you with beautiful words, but I know it just doesn’t always feel like that, and sometimes the longing is so big. But still, I’ll try to give you a bit more hope.

I’m 18 and haven’t even had my first kiss, and for a long time (and still, sometimes) this really bothered me. And there were nights I cried a lot because I was so lonely and I just needed a shoulder, a loving heart, just someone.
Right now, I feel more peaceful. I won’t be alone my whole life. Maybe tomorrow I will meet someone. Or next year. Or in five years. Or when I’m forty. But there will be a time when I’ll find love. And you know, I think it’s better to let it just be. Cause if you’re as desperate as I was (and still am sometimes), I think you want love for the wrong reasons. Love does not save you. It’s a fairy tale we learn from all those hollywood movies, but it’s not true. And love is so much more than a relationship. If you want love, search in yourself, in the nature, in friendship, in books, in food :), in music, in laughs, creativity, colours, smells etc. Widen your gaze! Love is almost everywhere!
You’ll be fine, but I know it hurts. That’s human. Don’t push those feelings away. You deserve love, but it doesn’t define you. You are someone without a boyfriend. There’s so much beauty in yourself! Discover it, show it to the world. You are great.

Lots of love, Christianne

Hi, I really like this blog, and every thing you write. It's amazing. Tomorrow I have to bring to school one poem, song, movie, book etc that describes who you are, and I just read millions and millions from here and I can't pick one! They are all oh so beautifully written. It really amazes me. (sorry if there are any mistakes, English is not my first language)

Thu, 02 May 2013 22:26:41 +0200

Ah that’s so sweet! Let me know which one you chose! X

I don't know who I am anymore, I feel lost. I can't find a reason to wake in the morning, why do we exist? I feel like nobody on earth holds the answer and still it is the only questions that should be answered.

Thu, 02 May 2013 22:26:29 +0200

I do not know how to answer your message. I know why I’m here, but I don’t know if it’ll help you right now if I say this.

But well… I believe in God and I believe I’m here to follow Him and to tell the world about His love. It gives me a lot of peace. I still wonder why things happen and I feel lost a lot, but I always find myself in Him. I hope you will discover this peace as well. You can search for it your whole life, but I believe I found the answer. I hope you’ll find it yourself too one day X

Hi, I just found out that quite a number of people find my blog through yours so I was looking around your tumblr and saw my url on the list of writers you follow! You have no idea how honoured I am! Thank you so much, darling, and keep up the writing :) it's absolutely lovely.

Thu, 02 May 2013 22:20:23 +0200

AH THIS IS SO GREAT! I’ve been following you for a very long time and I absolutely adore your writing, your a big inspiration to me. This message means a lot, thank you so much!

update’ll come soon

Wed, 01 May 2013 20:52:44 +0200

update’ll come soon

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Thu, 25 Apr 2013 23:44:20 +0200